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Free to be ourselves
“The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.”
- Joseph Campbell
We live in a world full of different personalities and identities. Thankfully, we are not all forced to dress, act, speak or live a certain way. There are plenty of societal norms and laws that provide us with guardrails on what is acceptable or what crosses the line. It varies in every country and culture. It even varies between states, organizations and industries. In some places we have a lot more freedom to be ourselves. Sometimes we may have to be careful about what we say or how we present ourselves depending on the environment and audience, but we should never feel like we can’t be ourselves, however we define that.
We all deserve to know what it feels like to be ourselves. We should not have to put on an act for anyone. We can say what we feel. We can dress how we like. We can be comfortable in our own skin and let our hair down. Or we can shave it all off. It should not matter because it’s what makes us who we are. Unfortunately, many people grow up in environments or cultures where they are restricted or forbidden to express themselves in a way that helps define them. Even living in the US, people in the LGBTQ+ community can’t even be themselves sometimes without people making a fuss about it.