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Socializing and connecting
“Solitude, isolation, are painful things, and beyond human endurance.”
- Jules Verne
Think about one of your most reserved and reclusive friends. Now think about one of your most outgoing and sociable friends. Pair those two up and that would describe my personality and personal life. I’m a homebody who thrives on the energy of good company and interacting with new people. On the introvert vs. extrovert spectrum, I would fall somewhere in the middle. I was the shy class clown. I have discussed this topic with many people who feel like they fall into a similar category.
The middle of the introvert and extrovert spectrum can swing in either direction. While I have my introverted side who prefers solitude and working independently, I also enjoy gathering with my friends and networking with people who share my same interests and passions. I feel more comfortable as an introvert, so on the spectrum I spend more time on the quiet side. I also rarely invite friends to meet up, but I rarely turn down invitations if I’m available. So, while I may not initiate a gathering, I’m usually up for one. I also show up ready to catch up, reminisce and have fun. I’m not one to sit in the corner.
I understand how important it is to socialize and create bonds with others. Whether it is our families, neighbors or coworkers, we can learn how to…
